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I know a lot of people - predominantly those who are single, but there are a few in relationships that feel similarly - that are straight up pissed about Valentine’s Day. 

Why?

Let’s all get something straight - Valentine’s Day is a commercial creation. It’s not a holiday. Despite pressure companies like Hallmark and Hershey, it doesn’t need to be celebrated. You simply do not need to recognize it. It’s not a holiday, it’s just a day. 

So, what are you upset about? Relax. 

I don’t have anything against it, personally. When I’ve had a significant other, I made sure I sent them some sort of flowers or chocolates. Or both. And we’d go out to dinner or something like that. Cutesy and romantic. No big deal. 

Now that I don’t have a significant other, I’m not mad or sad or anything. I’m just not going to do anything out of the ordinary tomorrow. If you have a significant other, or someone that has recently caught your eye, then by all means you should take advantage of Valentine’s Day. 

In all honesty, Valentine’s Day should not be your excuse to buy things for your girlfriend/boyfriend. You shouldn’t do something romantic or nice for them just because it’s Valentine’s Day. You should always treat him/her well. 

But I don’t understand why people feel upset or badly about Valentine’s Day if they don’t have someone to celebrate it with. Hallmark wants you to feel bad because they like to make money. They want you to feel pressure so that you find someone to celebrate with - celebrate as in buy a lot of pink stuff and cards. 

This is fine. It’s actually very American. But please, don’t feel bad. That’s just being silly. 

Don’t be silly. Instead, go to the store and buy yourself some discounted candy. 

Written by Justin J. Milliner, while he munched on some Sweethearts.